All relationships if you are in them for long enough have difficulties. You are in a relationship and life keeps happening around you. When stuff comes up couples will think that something is wrong. That’s when they looking for relationship counselling and if they live in Brisbane they will look for relationship counselling in Brisbane.
The interesting thing is that often when things look like they are falling apart they are often falling together. Issues that need to be addressed that may have been avoided are able to be addressed once someone is in difficulty. Things that should have been said or needed to be said are able to be said.
In all relationships, it take 2 people to agree to be in it. When relationships, get into difficulty the willingness to stay with the feeling uncomfortable for you and your partners growth is what makes it worthwhile to stay.
Blame gets in the way of finding good solutions for relationship difficulties. Practically always, problems in a relationship are jointly created. Similarly, solutions are jointly created.
If you are in a relationship that is in difficulty the chances are that for either youself or your partner:
- A value you have is being violated.
- An agreement you made has been broken
- A need you have isn’t being met.
Maybe all three of those things are happening at once. The process of unpacking a relationship conflict starts with finding the problem, naming it, looking for a mutually agreeable outcome and then working towards a solution that works for both people.
On the other side of relationship difficulties is increased love and trust and connection and intimacy. It’s worth it go through them, because on the other side you may discover that you are more in love with your partner than ever before. Relationship counselling in Brisbane is worth it.
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